i'm really wishing my horoscope would stop telling me what to do...

Is it time to take a more drastic approach to a problem, Alissa? If you've made several attempts to resolve your trouble to no avail, it might be something to consider. As long as drastic doesn't equate with destructive, you may find it successful to try something far more forward and insistent however, be careful. Think things through long and careful first. Run any ideas you have past a trusted friend.

any ideas? hmm, think i'll run off to tahiti and live on the beach for a few years. ;) any trusted friends wanna back that up? hee hee.